Andrea
I'm writing this for myself, to reread it the day I forget some detail. To remember exactly how it felt to arrive in a country I already loved before setting foot in it — because I had loved the woman born there for two years.
26 years old
Valledupar, Cesar
Barranquilla
With me
She's one of those people who talks with their whole body. Cries in airports, laughs with her head thrown back, and can go from joking about her country all day to defending it tooth and nail if anyone else dares to. She's been away from home for four years, and this trip is, deep down, her trying to see if she still has any of the 'costeña' left in her.
We met two years ago, at a friend's party. I had been orbiting her for months and had no idea. She was wearing a soccer team t-shirt, and I, knowing nothing about Colombian soccer, asked her if she played rugby. She still laughs about that.
That's what she told me the night we decided this trip had to happen. Not as tourism. As a formal introduction — me to her country, her country to me.
Oh, and one thing: if I hear her call me by my name in public, something's wrong. To her, I'm always:
And now here I am, flying to the country where she was born, about to get to know the places that made her the woman I love, her family, and the people she calls home.